Sunday, July 24, 2011

Belonging. Identity. The Group. Conformity. Questioning.

I've always had this dislike and aversion to groups and cliques. Anything resembling a clique or group, I automatically formed a harsh opinion of its members. Maybe it's because I haven't had the ease of identifying as one race and felt I had no default group that welcomed me in... Who knows. But as I've matured, I realize to hate all groups is to hate people because people organize in groups... It is what humans do.

Being part of a group gives a sense of identity. One can say, I am a ________ (fill in the blank with the social group you are part of). The concept of group is especially appealing to those who have not formed a solid perception of self identity in this world. Groups have ideologies to which its members must adhere. Failure to adopt said ideologies leads one to not only question their own authenticity but also leads to fellow group members questioning said person's authenticity.... Failure to subscribe to all group ideals can threaten one's sense of identity. When people feel that their identity is being threatened.... great distress can result. This is why it is so hard to question the status quo of a group... it is much easier to follow blindly and accept the "truths" of the group mind because in accepting these "truths" you are staying true... true to your identity as group member.... "Authentic". But are you being authentic to yourself? Are you strong enough to question the ideals of your particular social group; the group that gives you a sense of self and style? I challenge you to do so... you may just find that a questioning you results in a more authentic you.... with an identity that can't be defined and confined to one particular social group.

Blind following of ideals is one of the scariest concepts I can think of right now.... but that is another blog rant for another time......